Express Way

                                                          '' silence is golden ''


                     '' If you cant understand my silence then you cant understand my love ''

you might agree with the above said wise words i am sorry i dont complete bull shitt or maybe it's not but it doesnt work that way for me it never has and never will i guess .
I have been like this since childhood i always wanted a tap on back for something good I did , a star on my hand for a good result , a kiss from my mum for listening to her and hugs and wishes on my birthday . i like receving a thankyou and i like when someone tells me how important i am for them , their good friend , their best friend or how i can be trusted and how i am loved or missed .
And it's not just me i guess there are plenty others out there who are desperate for applause,appreceation,flattery,some kind words, a warm welcome , a friendly smile , a card , a text a wall or a call or perhaps a little bit of love .

( i just got a text from a friend saying I miss you and i dont want to lose you in 2011 . forward text i know i know but it made me go like aw.. a subtle smile and yeah i am that mushy gooey person :l so shut up oh no dont express it haha :p  )




It's okay to praise someone , yes you can tell that girl in your class that she is wearing a sassy dress or compliment the cute guy , hug your mum and tell her she cooked awsome and your taste buds are wow-ing or how your dad looks great in his new shirt ( avoid using word's like cool,hot,awesome,saxy etc etc it might turn ironic ) .

 I don't want to become a butter factory neither do i expect anyone else to be one the point here is to express how you feel when you feel not only the negative , rude , mean stuff but the nice stuff that would make others feel nice and maybe the world would be a nice-r place or not because science is making progress and so is global warming stop global warming but before that go text your friend and tell her you love her .


Feelings that can be shaped an expressed and told to people for whom they are meant , feelings that can make somebody smile or laugh or enlighten someone's day , feelings that can make a difference for somebody in a small way or in anyways .For me the only feelings that are worth respecting and are worth existing are the feelings that are expressed .


you have to open up to people about how you feel about them there is no point of having feelings that will never be expressed because  humans cant read minds and perhaps what you want to say is what the person on the other end is waiting to hear even if its just just a hello . sometimes if you take too much time to express what and how you feel then after you express it the feel gets lost somewhere and it becomes pointless . These emotions and feelings are what makes us human and not robotic and their expression is what makes people live , feel alive and get old . 
so go on and ride the express way and say what you need to say it might be what i want to hear ;)



(P.S  for people living in the part of the world where i live dont go around giving excessive compliments to guys/girls yes you might be taken as a flirt hitting on them and not to the ones with the same gender either you might be termed as gay or a lesbian  . use your head while being expressive but dont hold it back and for the people in lurvee i am not talking about expressing your love to your girlfriend/boyfriend only or to your secret crush etc etc  Err it's a general thought applicable to your family/friends and others around you too . you can start off by leaving comments about my posts :p )